Beware the urge to fix your grief
But learning, loving, and a lot of other experiences, are happening even when we cannot name, articulate, see, hear, or otherwise witness them. That perspective is really important because it addresses the other aspect, which is the notion that we can fix or solve grief.
Hard Dough Bread, Cornmeal Porridge, and Snickers Bars. Hear me out...
A food rant turned snuggly reminisce about food as culture, and as love.
"Roots, Rest, Grief, and Death" - One Creative's Chorus
Honoring the path and the path-clearers that walked me here
Maybe grieve it before you "fix" it.
Replacing "I need to fix" with "I need to grieve"
Knocking Parenting Off Its Pedestal
Clip from a convo about deschooling with a spiritual mentor while in seminary (a year ago)
The I.L.I.D. Course (I Let It Die)
8 weeks of grief-tending language and practices for affirming (not ignoring) grief and loss of Expectation, Identity, Relationship, and Cycle.
Using Busywork to Strengthen My Personal Wintering Skills
Unlearning the idea of cursing discomfort of the most natural kind