02
Oct
The Grief We Don't Talk About Enough
Lessons from a disruptive dementia tour
4 min read
Grief Groves
I spent most of 2024 and the first part of 2025 in a grief garden with 29 other people. It's kind of like a container-gardening club, but instead of plants, we tend to our grief. And instead of focusing solely on grief that comes from the death of a
person or animal, we focus on death of cycles, relationships, identities, and expectations. Grief groves will cover themed elements of grief over the course of the year. Sign up for more.
30
Sep
"Roots, Rest, Grief, and Death" - One Creative's Chorus
Honoring the path and the path-clearers that walked me here
6 min read
28
Aug
What absence can do for presence
A tribute to Jasai Madden
3 min read
22
Jul
Ferns, Philodendron, Growing, and Grief
6 min read
26
Jun
Maybe grieve it before you "fix" it.
Replacing "I need to fix" with "I need to grieve"
2 min read
20
Jun
Free to Grieve After Juneteenth
Reflecting on how grief shapes my experiences with independence and freedom
4 min read
07
Apr
The I.L.I.D. Course (I Let It Die)
8 weeks of grief-tending language and practices for affirming (not ignoring) grief and loss of Expectation, Identity, Relationship, and Cycle.
4 min read
14
Feb
I Let It Die So I Can Learn to Savor Life
Closings, not closure. Endings we face and endings we choose.
4 min read