17
Aug
2 Years Since Fare of the Free Child Died
Two years ago today I did something that, at the time, felt both right and strange: I let Fare of
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Grief Groves
I spent most of 2024 and the first part of 2025 in a grief garden with 29 other people. It's kind of like a container-gardening club, but instead of plants, we tend to our grief. And instead of focusing solely on grief that comes from the death of a
person or animal, we focus on death of cycles, relationships, identities, and expectations. Grief groves will cover themed elements of grief over the course of the year. Sign up for more.
28
Jul
Doing the most vs. Doing my best
While I could've just shared this video with the folks who enrolled in the ILID Course and the
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20
Jul
August Belongs to the Grieftenders
Five Saturdays
One sacred practice: letting go
We’ll tend our grief together through story, ritual, and release.
We’ll close out on National Grief Awareness Day, August 30th.
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05
May
Episode 8 Postmortem (WILD Podcast)
Grief doesn’t always wear black or bring food over. Sometimes it’s dressed for work, nodding on Zoom, answering
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23
Mar
WILD Podcast is live. Come listen.
The first two episodes of What I Let Die (WILD) Podcast are live. Listen on Spotify or Libsyn. This is
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08
Mar
Grief Questions Welcomed.
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08
Feb
Grief as a Waymaker. Yes.
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25
Jan
Beware the urge to fix your grief
But learning, loving, and a lot of other experiences, are happening even when we cannot name, articulate, see, hear, or otherwise witness them. That perspective is really important because it addresses the other aspect, which is the notion that we can fix or solve grief.
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13
Jan
(Invite) Monthly Grief Affinity Circle
Grief doesn’t demand clarity or resolve—it asks for our presence, our curiosity, and our permission to feel it fully.
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09
Jan
Digging into Grief-inspired Freedom
Our grief tenderizes us, softening the hardened edges we've built up as a form of protection. Edges that grew into thick, thorny bushes that block out light and exaggerate separation.
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