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Grief Groves

Grief Groves

I spent most of 2024 and the first part of 2025 in a grief garden with 29 other people. It's kind of like a container-gardening club, but instead of plants, we tend to our grief. And instead of focusing solely on grief that comes from the death of a person or animal, we focus on death of cycles, relationships, identities, and expectations. Grief groves will cover themed elements of grief over the course of the year. Sign up for more.
10
Mar
Inheritance & Liberation: What We Carry, Break, & "Trust Toward"

Inheritance & Liberation: What We Carry, Break, & "Trust Toward"

5 min read
17
Feb
Consent & Capacity: Honoring What’s Actually Available

Consent & Capacity: Honoring What’s Actually Available

4 min read
10
Feb
Learning to Stay: Grief, Aliveness, and the Spirals We Trust

Learning to Stay: Grief, Aliveness, and the Spirals We Trust

5 min read
03
Feb
What Unschooling Taught Me/Us About Grief

What Unschooling Taught Me/Us About Grief

This series exists to offer that language. It is an invitation to name what you have been carrying, to make sense of the emotional terrain you have been navigating, and to recognize grief not as a failure or downside of a self directed life, but as a companion within it.
4 min read
25
Jan
Winter with me. Come Tend Your Endings Here.

Winter with me. Come Tend Your Endings Here.

Say it with me, fam: endings need tending. If you’ve spent any time with me in a grief circle
4 min read
15
Oct
When the Body Begins Again

When the Body Begins Again

3 min read
26
Sep
Grief is a Threshold

Grief is a Threshold

We live inside a culture that tells us we don’t have time for grief. ☑️ Bills need paying ☑️ Families need
3 min read
17
Aug
2 Years Since Fare of the Free Child Died

2 Years Since Fare of the Free Child Died

Two years ago today I did something that, at the time, felt both right and strange: I let Fare of
2 min read
28
Jul
Doing the most vs. Doing my best

Doing the most vs. Doing my best

While I could've just shared this video with the folks who enrolled in the ILID Course and the
1 min read
20
Jul
August Belongs to the Grieftenders

August Belongs to the Grieftenders

Five Saturdays One sacred practice: letting go We’ll tend our grief together through story, ritual, and release. We’ll close out on National Grief Awareness Day, August 30th.
2 min read