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09
Jan
Digging into Grief-inspired Freedom

Digging into Grief-inspired Freedom

Our grief tenderizes us, softening the hardened edges we've built up as a form of protection. Edges that grew into thick, thorny bushes that block out light and exaggerate separation.
3 min read
16
Oct
Hard Dough Bread, Cornmeal Porridge, and Snickers Bars. Hear me out...

Hard Dough Bread, Cornmeal Porridge, and Snickers Bars. Hear me out...

A food rant turned snuggly reminisce about food as culture, and as love.
1 min read
02
Oct
The Grief We Don't Talk About Enough

The Grief We Don't Talk About Enough

Lessons from a disruptive dementia tour
4 min read
30
Sep
"Roots, Rest, Grief, and Death" - One Creative's Chorus

"Roots, Rest, Grief, and Death" - One Creative's Chorus

Honoring the path and the path-clearers that walked me here
6 min read
28
Aug
What absence can do for presence

What absence can do for presence

A tribute to Jasai Madden
3 min read
22
Jul
Ferns, Philodendron, Growing, and Grief

Ferns, Philodendron, Growing, and Grief

6 min read
26
Jun
Maybe grieve it before you "fix" it.

Maybe grieve it before you "fix" it.

Replacing "I need to fix" with "I need to grieve"
2 min read
24
Jun
Knocking Parenting Off Its Pedestal

Knocking Parenting Off Its Pedestal

Clip from a convo about deschooling with a spiritual mentor while in seminary (a year ago)
1 min read
20
Jun
Free to Grieve After Juneteenth

Free to Grieve After Juneteenth

Reflecting on how grief shapes my experiences with independence and freedom
4 min read
07
Apr
The I.L.I.D. Course (I Let It Die)

The I.L.I.D. Course (I Let It Die)

8 weeks of grief-tending language and practices for affirming (not ignoring) grief and loss of Expectation, Identity, Relationship, and Cycle.
4 min read