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28
Aug
What absence can do for presence

What absence can do for presence

A tribute to Jasai Madden
3 min read
22
Jul
Ferns, Philodendron, Growing, and Grief

Ferns, Philodendron, Growing, and Grief

6 min read
26
Jun
Maybe grieve it before you "fix" it.

Maybe grieve it before you "fix" it.

Replacing "I need to fix" with "I need to grieve"
2 min read
24
Jun
Knocking Parenting Off Its Pedestal

Knocking Parenting Off Its Pedestal

Clip from a convo about deschooling with a spiritual mentor while in seminary (a year ago)
1 min read
20
Jun
Free to Grieve After Juneteenth

Free to Grieve After Juneteenth

Reflecting on how grief shapes my experiences with independence and freedom
4 min read
07
Apr
The I.L.I.D. Course (I Let It Die)

The I.L.I.D. Course (I Let It Die)

8 weeks of grief-tending language and practices for affirming (not ignoring) grief and loss of Expectation, Identity, Relationship, and Cycle.
4 min read
04
Mar
Using Busywork to Strengthen My Personal Wintering Skills

Using Busywork to Strengthen My Personal Wintering Skills

Unlearning the idea of cursing discomfort of the most natural kind
3 min read
14
Feb
I Let It Die So I Can Learn to Savor Life

I Let It Die So I Can Learn to Savor Life

Closings, not closure. Endings we face and endings we choose.
4 min read
19
Jan
Shaping the Stories that Shape Me/Us

Shaping the Stories that Shape Me/Us

bodies be tellin stories bout power.
2 min read
30
Dec
Exactly One Year Later and the Savoring Stayed.

Exactly One Year Later and the Savoring Stayed.

Reflections and Direction on Savoring the Journey
7 min read